So, a year ago on the 26th our lives changed forever when we received the phone call that i never believed would happen.
" Congratulations, you have two healthy babies, a boy and a girl - they are beautiful, what are their names?"
After much planning, anxiety and all that goes with a large family do, we celebrated Max & Lily's baptism and first birthday. The only thing that defeated us was the heat, it was sooo hot in the Church!
" Congratulations, you have two healthy babies, a boy and a girl - they are beautiful, what are their names?"
After much planning, anxiety and all that goes with a large family do, we celebrated Max & Lily's baptism and first birthday. The only thing that defeated us was the heat, it was sooo hot in the Church!
Father Frank did a small personalised service that acknowledged our surrogacy journey & India by :
- talking about Max & Lily, our prince and princess, born of India, now firmly in the hearts of their family in Australia
- in the mother's blessing acknowledging my journey and babies born of my spirit & soul and
- Included a blessing for our surrogate and those that helped us in India
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| Lily, trying to taste the Olive oil Max, after watching his sister, just goes for the hand grab. |
After the Mass, the party, with fabulous food & cake and all of Max & Lily's favourite people at my parents local community club. It was wonderful to have family of my blood and heart, all those that will be in Max & Lily's lives together.
My gorgeous parents surprised me by bringing out some Port that they had laid down on the day of my baptism, for my children's baptism. When they first laid down, the Port was 20 years old, now considerably smoother and older.
and as with all parties, at the end things become a bit untidy, clothes get lost and everyone is a bit tired
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| Max, post birthday cake clean up |
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| Lily, trying to copy her friend Lara's crossed legs. |
and all i can see are two toddlers. I have big kids now!







